Saturday, June 16, 2012
mind wondering..heart singing...soul searching~
O! How thy worth with manners may I sing,
When thou art all better part of me?
What can mine own praise to mine ownself bring?
And what is’t but mine own when i praise thee?
Even for this, let us divided live,
And our dear love lose name of single one
That due to thee which thou desev’st alone
O absence! What a torment wouldst thou prove,
Were it thy sour leisure gave sweet leave,
To entertain the time with thoughts of love,
Which time and the thoughts so sweetly doth deceive,
And that thou teachest how to make one twain,
By praising him here doth hence remain
this is just for sharing tots and wanna let my mind speak on its own~ Personally, we see and experience things in our life. Happy, sad, enjoyment..work, family, relationship and such moments~ All bring to a very memorable things to oneself. the part i'm about to discover is between 2 souls and 2 hearts that practically trying them self to merge in becoming one.
In life, everything i can literally say is hard regardless if we trying very hard in making certain things happen as we wanted. basically it will measure on our strength and patient in getting to our destiny. I always wondering and actually been facing it ..i mean everybody does. One said that the toughest things in man kind is to connect 2 souls become one. Pretty much by saying is easy...but as we in that situation, i can say its hard. this part i never ever discover yet. I know it will comes to each and every single people in relationship. No matter how long u were with ya other half, there will always have miss-communication, misunderstanding and uncertainty. Yeah..this part I'm talking about...to urge to create full force towards making the gentleman understand women's world and for women to understand men's world. I know at certain point, me couldn't understand...and women always do is to ask themselves once again, " Are we(the relationship) heading the same direction...our other half is thinking the same thing as me?"
well...as did some reading about men and women's world and so forth...seriously, there's no specific answer to it. Its always reflect to oneself..I mean i couldn't even have my bf's mind and so did him. But the part of understanding oneself is a key to develop a healthy respectful relationship. I think the more we trying to understand is the more we actually mess up! ........ Not to say i just let it be....i'm more into welcome a good and deepest communication among our self.
I'm a believer as i'm believes in what ever i do regardless on my works, family and relationship..its always back to the Almighty. For me, to get 2 souls become one its pretty hard. People who married for years also still juggling in understanding their partner emotions and feelings. I'm amazed with one of my mom quote saying...
" Although sometime Mama and Abah quarrel because of something small, but at the end between us we always have this feeling to Tolerate ...usually Mama la yg Tolerate pon.. but Abah a true gentleman for me cos he welcome what i want to say. Its good to just let it out to your husband ...make it your husband like your best friend..InsyAllah lagi diberkati"
Seriously when Mama told me that, somehow it makes the lil confusion inside my tiny heart comes to an answer...No matter how ages its gonna take for us to understand each other, we need to know that we are heading a same direction. Minded and heart will come into picture when our soul automatically connected by its own...Believes it will happen and it will. InsyAllah ~ Basically, is going to be an amazing ride to one couple nway in discovering each other flaws and fun from time to time, isnt it? :)
"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given one more (strength) than the other and because they support them from their means. Therefore, the righteous women are devoutly obedient and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard" (Ali Imran:34-36).
Just an accidentally thought -the end